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Tuesday, 24 January 2012 06:39

There are several ways to ask a girl out without getting rejected or embarrassed in front of your friends.  Most guys are afraid to ask a girl out because of the fear of rejection and those guys are usually the ones who end up being single until they are in college or even later. That is why you need to make it clear to yourself that even though you can end up being rejected, if you don’t do it then you will never be able to find a girlfriend. Girls are attracted to confident guys and if you can ask a girl you like out without showing your insecurities, she will most likely agree to go out with you.

Fortunately, there a few ways to eliminate the chance of rejection to almost zero. The easiest way to do so is to ask her close friends whether she is attracted to you. However you need to be aware of the fact that some girls may lie to you and that is why asking the friends of the girl you like might not work, unless you have some mutually friends you can really trust. Another way to find out if the girl is interested in going out with you is to pay close attention to how she acts or what she is saying around you. If for example, she asks what you are doing on weekends or jokes that maybe you both should go to watch a movie, then it is a sign that she probably wants to go out with you. Girls will often joke about things they want, to avoid rejection.

Other important factor when asking a girl out is timing. When you want to ask a girl out, you need to find a time when she is alone and she is excited about something.  Asking a girl in front of her friends may display your confidence, but the problem with this approach is that most girls will be ashamed to give say yes in front of their girlfriends. That is usually happens if the girl is too young or insecure, but it might even happen to older and more mature women because women in generally are highly influenced by opinions of their girlfriends.

You also need to remember that when you are asking a girl out, it should be in person. Text messages, facebook posts or even calls generally are not good ways to ask a girl out because they show a girl that you are not confident enough. It also gives a girl more options to turn you down, since it is much easier to say no to someone in text message than in person. My last advice is that you need to stop thinking about all the consequences about asking a girl out and instead you should just do it, because millions of men already did it and you can do it as well.

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