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Thursday, 05 May 2011 22:49

If you are new to the town, but you want to meet local single girls to hang out with, then the best place to start looking is your local bar or restaurant. Just go there somewhere at 6 pm, when most singles are done working and just order something and see if there any single girls are there. When you find one, then you can just come to her and say that you are new to town and ask her if she would recommend any good places to go to. After you see that she is comfortable with conversation, you can ask her if she would like to hang out sometime and show you the town. This is an indirect way of meeting local singles because you make it look like you are just asking for help and not really hitting on her. Most girls will only reject you if you directly hit on them but when you ask for help, almost every girl will do her best to help you out.

Another place to look for local singles is online, especially if you don’t want to go to local bars alone or you just want to have a greater number of girls to choose from. To start talking to local singles online you just need to join a reputable dating website with large number of members, so that you could have a greater number of girls to chat with. Many big dating websites have thousands of local singles who are up to meeting somebody and therefore if you take a good approach you will be potentially able to meet hundreds of local single girls. I am not sure if it is something you are looking for, but I usually only email girls who seem to have both good personality and also good looking. If you go only for good looking girls, then you might find that many of those girls are extremely shallow and only are looking for casual relationships. Those shallow girls are fun to be around with as long as you are not dating one because you will never be happy if you are dating somebody just for good looks and you have completely different personalities.

The best places for first dates are coffee shops and bars, depending on the kind of girl you go on a date with. To decide where to take your girl on a first date you can use my rule of thumb. If the girl has higher education and works for a prestigious company I would take to the coffee shop and after that if the date goes well you can take her to the bar. The girl which I would take directly to the bar is the one which doesn’t have higher education and works as waitress or some kind of secretary. Those girls are more open minded and bar is the way to go and if the date goes well you can take her to the club and from there you are on your own:).

Last Updated on Sunday, 30 October 2011 06:19